Find The One

Master the Art of Modern Dating
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The Rules of the “Dating Game” Have Changed.

Learn why successful dating requires a strategy:

Lisa Marie Bobby


Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is the founder and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a board certified life coach, the author of “Exaholics: Breaking Your Addiction to An Ex Love” and the host of The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast.

Dr. Bobby is one of only nine dating coaches to be trained at the world headquarters of, and has unique insight into successful modern dating. Through years of research and work with her private dating coaching clients, Dr. Bobby has developed a transformational online dating coaching program that walks you through the five crucial steps for connecting with your ideal partner, and creating the love you’re looking for.

Modern Dating: Five Steps to Success



An effective plan requires clarity and intention about what you’re looking for.

Dr. Bobby will help you understand what kind of relationship you want, what core values are most important to you, and what kind of person you want to connect with.

With clarity and self-awareness firmly in mind, you can then create an action plan for connecting with “the one” who’s right for you.

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Personal Branding

Personal branding: Knowing which of your strengths will be most attractive to your ideal partner, and communicating those with intention and confidence through your words, actions, and images.

Dr. Bobby will show you how to highlight the qualities that make you most desirable, intentionally increase your “chemistry factors,” and – most importantly – how to stop unintentionally turning people off.




Connecting with your ideal partner requires living your life to the fullest, and learning how to meet people both organically and online.

Dr. Bobby will show you how to create an online dating profile that showcases your best self, and also how to maximize all your opportunities for memorable in-person meetings.

You’ll learn how to create multiple connection opportunities, so that you are a “high value date” who has lots of choices.

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Engaging & Evaluating

How do you move past messaging? How do you avoid first date “fails?” What are the warning signs you should watch for when you’re meeting new people? How do you leave your first dates wanting seconds?

In this info packed class, Dr. Bobby will show you how to communicate intentionally, evaluate your options, figure out who is worth your time, and knock-em-dead on the first date.


Moving Things Forward

How do you avoid accidentally scaring off someone you’re excited about? What personality traits suggest long-term compatibility for you? How do you keep someone interested in getting to know you better? How do you move “dates” into a real relationship?

Dr. Bobby will show you how to date with power, confidence and intention… and turn a great date into a love of a lifetime.

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“I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.”

- Mya Angelou


Over five strategic online sessions you’ll learn the powerful action steps that will lead to successful modern dating.


You can work through this program in the privacy and comfort of your own home, and at the pace that’s right for you.


This online course is offered at a fraction of the cost of one private datingcoaching session with Dr. Bobby.

Ready to find the love you’re looking for?

Your dating success is just a click away!